Sandi, glad to hear you are well. Always like seeing you on the board and reading your advice to others too.
Quick update on my sitch. Pretty good week so far. W and I are communicating regularly by phone this week to take care of selling house. We are agreeing on what to do with house. Our conversations have been friendly and it seems like my W is becoming more comfortable around me. At least I am starting to see her being a bit more comfortable with me. My DB coach said my W needs to become friendly again before things could improve anyway so hopefully this is the start. Just going day by day with it and not putting any expectations on it. Perhaps the dynamic is beginning to change for the better,
Will stay off any R talks and no pursuing. So, all in all, ok for now.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch