How do I detach when he is attempting to get me to participate in his D. I have no power to stop him. He is the one calling and saying he wants to walk through the house and divide everything. How can he do this? I feel as though he will NEVER awaken and that why I don' think he is coming back or will find his way back. I was dark and even today, I was pleasant and calm when I spoke to him. I feel that he had a plan and he is executing it and it is working to his advantage.
Maybe I am allowing it to affect me... yes, I am, but I feel sucker punched by the H who cheated on me. This whole "MLC episode" is selfish, condescending, and idiotic. I am venting..I know, but I just want him to STOP!!
I can't even be here tomorrow as I have to work. I will have to take pictures of everything before leaving for work. I am going to send him a text telling him that I prefer that he not stop by when someone is not at home.
Any more advice?
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
