Oh, ALJ, I really feel for you. My children are similar ages to yours and my heart breaks for them every day. I'm back to the really high anxiety stage too...

I'm glad to hear that you're going to re-read DR. Sometimes we need to get back on track. Maybe write down what your plan is. You might want to read mb28's thread...she is getting a lot of advice on how to deal with her H's A, though not all is what MWD suggests in DR.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.