On the flip side of that... Drew, 25 and me are the ones that probably have done the most changing out of all the people that post to you on a regular basis.
25 had told her story many times and I think we can all agree it is pretty intense. My story, well, you know it already. I went back and read all Drew's old posts and it sounds to me like he had to make major changes as well.
Maybe it is easier to see what changes have to be made once you start actually experiencing them rather than just reading about them. I am glad you got a new job, you are having some fun, looking at new cars and new places to live and so on. All of that is very good. At your core though it seems you have shifted all the "real stuff" on to the Church and things are not much different.
I never really thought of it but 25 said something earlier today that really hit home. Say your marriage is declared invalid... what does that mean your children are? Invalid kids? How do you begin to address that with them? Is it really worth it?
