Pearlharbor- Is your H and OW working together a deal breaker for you?
I don't believe it would be a deal breaker if my H did a good job of making me feel OK about all this. Don't know if he will..remember my H doesn't feel empathy (according to his therapist)...I don't want to play parole office and give him what I need or want...but his lack of empathy does not allow him to put himself in my position and take the necessary actions and come up with ways that he thinks will make me feel better.
