Oh I assure you that I have a sense of humor, but I don't understand this.
So perhaps maybe you should have taken a moment to realize or at least try to understand before posting this lame a$$ BULLSHITT below.
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Besides, why would you feel the need to poke fun at your husband if he is back? You must still have some unresolved issues with him or you would be looking forward instead of at the past? Is it that negative attention is better than no attention for you?
People are different, and we all heal and deal with things differently as well. There is nothing wrong with looking back and finding some bright spots or humor in this. Actually little more than some. (Camel toe!?!) I'm dying right now!!
(((hugs))) dncrm, Even my Husband laughs at himself now if that makes you feel better:) Perhaps it is better if you don't post on my thread as it is only upsetting you. There is actually a little button that you can block me and then I can't offend you anymore. I am glad your Husband is back in the land if the living and that you have enough love and compassion to help him through this part of the journey. I spent too many years being miserable and feeling sorry for myself and my kids and my Husband. Now it is time to laugh and rejoice that I am no longer dealing with so much pain. I hope things get better for you and you will one day also be able to look back on this and laugh with your Husband about all of his crazy antics.
My H can also make jokes about his MLC days now sometimes--and better still, I am now able to see the humour in them (not so much just after he came back).
I notice he no longer sports the Harley gear he bought during the height of his MLC-induced motorcycle craze!
I really believe they still THINK as a teenager, only now they have the money to buy that Harley and to buy the clothes....sometimes when I speak to my husband he sounds so much like a kid who has been caught in a lie...trying to explain it off......whatever it is he is talking about at the time......like a racing kinda of talk, dont know how else to explain it.......who knows what else he has done to his appearance, like I said we have not seen him in a yr...... for all I know he has tattooed her name somewhere on his body....O/P having been doing lots of praying for your Dad and for your family.....take care of yourself
Wow - this brings back so many memories. I didn't recognize the change in clothes as MLC at first. In fact, I was so into the motorcycles (he bought me one too), the leather clothing, and the new Ford Mustang (he bought for me), the 1968 Mustang he bought for me...that I totally missed the MLC. Then a year to two years later came the OW and he started wearing the kind of clothes that she liked. Yuk!!! Fortunately, he is wearing more normal clothes for his age now...still sometimes the teenage pant style but it is improving.
BTW - the leather jackets are now hanging in the closets, "her" style of clothes are no longer seen in the house, and now he doesn't "strut" when he walks!
