Just be careful about what you hear from OMW. You cannot be 100% certain of their agenda.

I got in touch with OW xboyfriend after d-day#2...he wanted revenge on the xgirlfriend and told me a bunch of crazy lies and then told the xgirlfriend lies about what I told him about my H..because he knew it would get back to my H...and his main concern was to hurt the xgirlfriend and my H. As soon as I caught on to this game..I stopped all contact. You have enough to deal with...no extra drama necessary.