"Since she still hedges on thinking that my changes are "just words" (not as much as before, I think she is more confident I'm sincere), and is concerned that if she came back she may find my changes are still not what she needs, this allows her to verify that before we destroy the family. I didn't pressure her or give her the timetable, just told her that it was something to consider."
You're putting too much into what SHE wants. Have you thought about YOUR needs? The thing is that what she wants changes from day to day. You need to stay consistent. Live well and if she chooses to be with you so be it. It's like the thing about God. She has to prove why she's worthy for you. Not the other way around.
With her waffling, I think she's going to lead you through hoops. Stop playing her game and start setting a new set of rules.
"Now she can't say I did not reach out to her."
That seemed like a roundabout way of reaching out to her. Keep the messages short and to the point.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
