Echo H4L time to decide how you want to play this hun! You definitely need some rules of engagement before he merrily moves back in and starts happily reorganising your life.. not in a nasty way more in a honeymoon sorta way.. I can smell resentment a mile off from your post so the only way your gonna settle this is to really decide what you need and the dreaded R talk has got to happen.. Perhaps staggering the R talk will help you a bit.. so perhaps question 1 what ever you want to know.. then ask for some to consider it.. dont do the whole thing in one go other wise you will end up a scared rabbit and run for the hills and lets face it no one would blame you..
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