Isn't it better to condition yourself to not respond to the stimulus instead of removing the stimulus?
Long-term? Yes. But a new addict doesn't have that kind of willpower. Do you keep alcohol in the home of the newly-recovering alcoholic, so they can "teach themselves to resist it?" Do you keep matches and kerosene nearby the pyromaniac? Do you locate the addicted gambler next to a dog track/poker room, "cuz it'll be good for her to learn to resist the temptation"???
The COMPANY should take an interest in this, but if they don't do the right thing, and get rid of the woman, then your husband needs to make a decision -- his career or his marriage.
It's that simple. Not EASY, but really that simple. Some people move to entirely NEW TOWNS to save their marriages.
