That is what I am worried about. The OW is still working in his office..and not sure if she is going to leave..although I have been told she has been sending out resumes. His office has only about 15 people. Can this work? Career wise..he is doing very well there. The partners do not want him to leave...I also would not want him to leave..it provides us with a good future...but I also realize there may not be a future with her in the picture. The partners now know that she has had multiple affairs in the office..they cannot fire her for the obvious reasons.. I am just wondering if she will ever leave.. what can be done to coax her along? She told my H that she has a lot of skeletons in the closet there and wants to move on but she hasn't found anything that would pay her enough to leave. She has 2 kids to support and just foreclosed on house so has tons of bills and cannot afford a pay cut. Why would you sh*t where you eat knowing that you need that job??? The same goes for my H. Can the addiction just 'subside' based on making a choice and sticking to it? Won't there always be an OW dangling the carrot? Isn't it better to condition yourself to not respond to the stimulus instead of removing the stimulus? especially when you cannot control when the stimulus will surface again?
