Most divorced guys I know are prowling the community college for teenagers,
LOL. and some of us get jobs there teaching them youngins....
Originally Posted By: stark648
I was specifically wondering if you had any ideas how to mess up their relationship/affair. That may sound bad,
Yes. It does sound bad and it is the most unproductive thing you could be worrying about right now. Read your post above. You are getting nasty with her. Your tone, your words are filled with emotion. Imagine yourself a woman right now. Would you as a gal want to get involved with a man that gets EMOTIONAL and when things dont go his way nasty?
Or would you be attracted to a man who acts on logic; who is confident, out-going, who doesnt have a minute to waste on someone who doesnt want anything to do with them and especially those who would disrespect him?
Think about it from outside your situation. That is why I suggested take a month or two where she is removed from your life. Where you take time for yourself; and if you decide to reapproach it down the road you can view it from a new and different perspective.
Waiting around is not going to save your marriage. Grow mentally, spiritually, and as an individual in this time if you want to save it?
