WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

I absolutely understand what you are saying Flowmom.. not taken the wrong way at all... I'd already decided that if things calmed down and didn't escalate, I'd let them be as was before re: visitation, open to him taking them during the week (though he has never asked for them even once).. me not contacting him at all... Replying to only what is necessary in the briefest of terms...

The furor was caused by SIL texting him an unclear version of our conversation, and he wouldn't hear what I was really trying to communicate (gee what a surprise).. so second thing I learned which had been told to me before.. Stop talking to SIL!!

He isn't a bad father by any means... just can't co-parent with him or talk to him right now...