WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

You guys are focused way too much about how your wives are doing the wrong thing. I bet they pick up on your judgemental attitude, how atractive is that? What can you control? What are solutions? How can you lead?

Who is this a picture of?


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Cindy Crawford. Quit focusing on the birthmark and step back and look at the big picture.

You're right, Coach. I think it was a venting session for me and idontunderstand over our beers.

I work very hard at not being judgemental in front of my wife and instead look to understand her point of view and validate it. I will control what I can control, basically myself and what happens with my kids, and will seek to stand up for what THEY need, not what my W thinks they need.

I will also work to ensure my W's actions do not dictate my feelings. I am certain that my position is what is best for me and my kids, regardless of the outcome of my marriage situation. And I know in the end, my position will be validated.