I would be shocked if you didn't have a plan, Flowmom! You are super resourceful, and smart! So it is kinda dumb for me to even say "get prepared"...sorry.
I don't have a plan. I am not a planner at all. Hoping for the best and preparing for the worst is not my forte at all and it will require a lot of emotional energy for me to hold that duality as I move forward.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.