I think you've changed though the reality is that we both have a ways to go. I'm glad I've been able to help. I guess it is much easier to look at someone else sitch and provide perspective. Personally speaking I'm am still too close to mine, which is why I am still spinning and still pissed.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans