As you may have seen I asked before if I should bring the proof of an EA to this weekend. One post said a non- confrontational weekend is what this is about.
So do I bring this proof, otherwise everyone seems to say if there is an ongoing affair this won't work. I don't want to scare her off the weekend.
Advice?
If you don't intend to "out" and address the EA beforehand and possibly get an agreement that it will be dropped, Retrouvaille is not a place to bring proof and then confront her with it.
The weekend is not for solving problems, it is for learning tools to address your problems.
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