WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

I know what you mean. If my wife and I didn't have kids, would I put myself through all of this? I don't know. I love her and think marriage is a lifetime commitment, but if it was just she and I.......
The kids are innocent and have done nothing to deserve this, and no matter how hard we try, if it comes down to a divorce, I will feel like I let them down and failed them.

How can the WAW seem like they have no concern for the kids? I don't know if I'll ever understand that one. I know they don't like us anymore, but come on.

As I've told my W before, staying in a marriage for the kids is not good, I agree. TRYING your damndest to fix and save the marriage because of the kids is an obligation of having them...