We're both hoping to find love, committment, and some sense of moving forward. Why bring in poison?
IF she did something, can't this problem wait?
If Retro needed 100% no EA/PA situations, there would be an investigation.
Just because it didn't help for one person because of an EA doesn't mean it won't for you. I am not 100% committed to my marriage, but I'm going hoping - ready to work. If your W isn't, you won't really know until Sunday.
I really think you should drop the issue until later on.
