4luv, Your H and mine sound the same (-: My H has said the same thing to me about not making me happy. And he states that I haven't been happy with him for the last 4 years. I've told him that I was, and that it was myself that I was no happy with. I too hate that this is such a hard decision for my H. I have a hard time with this one. I just don't understand why they don't want to try to work it out.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10