As you may have seen I asked before if I should bring the proof of an EA to this weekend. One post said a non- confrontational weekend is what this is about.

So do I bring this proof, otherwise everyone seems to say if there is an ongoing affair this won't work. I don't want to scare her off the weekend.

Advice?

TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10