Yes, getting yourself a back up plan together just in case is essential. I am Ms. Optimism but have 99% my ducks in a row for if/when he files for D. I would be shocked if you didn't have a plan, Flowmom! You are super resourceful, and smart! So it is kinda dumb for me to even say "get prepared"...sorry.

Last edited by newmama; 03/03/10 07:29 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004