MC that is a good point. No contact unless I am around.

Mb28, thx for the positive. Husband also said that he wasnt sure if he could make me happy. I told him that my happiness is not dependent on him. ITs just sooo hard to know that RIGHT things to say. I haven't felt good since our conversation. I am going to limit talking to him for the rest of the day. I just feel like he was temperature checking to see if I had given up on him and our marriage. I don't know with him anymore. I guess it is positive that he is going to get a two bedroom apartment (I will see if he reallly does this) but I just get frustrated that this is such a hard decision for him.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo