12 more days...OMG I feel like planning for the "Twelve Days til Christmas" theme... but FIB's Jewish...
Still, you get the point.
I can't wait Frank, I really cannot wait for this to be over for you and your kids (and for what I think will happen to your stbxw). But again, your "victory" in life is to be solely measured by your success and your happiness going forward, not her misery or inevitable crash and burn. In fact, except for how it affects the kids, who cares what she does/says/thinks/feels? She isn't your problem anymore...I know you're a reflective man and you want to know you're lessening the chance of a repeat experience so you look inward a lot. That's a smart thing to do. But for now, relax about that. (Besides, we'd all tell you if you were a jerk )
I just think you should keep the constructive "ruminating" for later, and know that for now...You're soon to be totally in charge of your life without the parasitic impact of the Swirling Vortex of Negativity ("SVON") on you. And that's a good good thing.
Ahhh....12 days... j-
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