New here but have been a voyeur

[pearlharbr]

Lola, you were right not to allow your H to move back in at the end of his lease. It's too soon and you don't need him to come back because it's convenient timing. When my BF was out of the house we started piecing with the understanding that he was not going to move back in until I was ready for that.

You misunderstood Steve. He was not talking about the OW, he was talking about the WAW (walkaway wife). His point was that when a W leaves her H, he usually gets all whiny and pathetic which is SO not attractive. He was reminding you to not get all whiny and pathetic, to instead to the exact opposite. And that I totally agree with.

So what have you done to work on you? Have you identified your part in the problems in your M? Have you worked on remedying them? What have you done to GAL? What have you done to treat yourself?