The hardest thing is to let them deal with their own mess. The kids relationship with their Dad is just that...theirs. I jump in when the kids ask me or tell me but for the most part I let him deal with the chaos and havoc he has created. I know, easier said than done.
Thinking of you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
