Tom, Glad to hear you are okay, I think you will find as the Separation goes on the tension will ease between you and your W and eventually you will be able to communicate better with her. Bad news is this takes time probably months, reality is weeks will go by w/o much change.
I will agree with this. My W and I have been separated for nearly 18 months now. If not for this separation; I do not think we would have EVER been able to communicate like we do now. I had to learn how to be an independent person and her likewise. Mind you, we are not back together but we are headed that way slowly. It's been a little back and forth; but it seems to be processing that way.
