It goes away when you drop the rope that connects you. That comes on your time schedule and no one elses. It is strange being somewhat civil to the man I once loved but I also realize that he is no longer the person he once was. That person is gone.
I will admit I did get a bit upset when I found out he was engaged to his affair partner. Upset again when I saw her telling a mutual friend of ex's and mine basically when the wedding is. I know that I don't want him back in any way, but it is sad for our family that it ended this way.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory