Struggling with Hope

[ericmsant2]

Cat - yes I am talking about custody issues. If waiting does not hurt my chances of getting them 1/2 of the time then I wait. If waiting means that I will probably loose that right then I have to consider what this means. Right now, her job schedule is not set if this is an advantage that I would not be able to leverage in the future then it is something that I need to think about. In addition, you have the whole financial aspect of this. I need to consider this as well. All I want is some guidance from the attny. I will make it very clear that my intent is to not go forward with the D but what does that mean. Historically in CT, men get the short end of the stick - if waiting guarentees that...well then I may not wait. Let's be clear here...I love this woman deeply - but I also love myself and my kids. In MLC no one has can say if they will ever come of out this. I just want to make sure that I am protected and understand what this means to me and my kids. Cat - trust me I really do love this women but I cannot control her I can only control myself. I am working on the GAL and the work on myself but I don't think I should not find out what this may mean to me. For example, if going dark has some legal ramifications then I can't do that. If exposing the EA has some benefit then I may need to consider this as well. Before I do anything I will ask for feedback. I promise.