A drive-by posting:

Originally Posted By: lea74
Everything I've done, I've done to fight for our marriage."

That sentence invites the imagery of conflict. The word "fight" is not suitable and will bring out antagonism. Try one of these two instead:

"Everything I've done, I've done to save our marriage."
"Everything I've done, I've done to keep our family intact."

Also it's phrased in past tense.

"I'll do whatever it takes to save our marriage."
"I'm doing whatever I can to keep our family together."

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