Originally Posted By: Lostforwords
I have to agree with OP. It does appear that he is coming out of the tunnel, but there is some pressure being placed on him. Not a lot, but possibly enough to push him in the wrong direction.

I like the IM/email conversation following the email. It really sounds like he is returning from the bottom....there is obvious remorse and guilt.

This is a tricky time DMK......it will be interesting to see how things continue to progress.


This is true... I'm just turning up the charm for now. And cooking dinner whenever he's over.

One thing I notice, he laughs at my jokes more. Or maybe it's that I actually feel comfortable enough WITH him to relax and joke.


Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011