Hi, M3! I like reading how you are getting your H to talk about things other than the kids...I'm picking up some pointers!
At times I don’t feel like I am making much progress, but am still trying.
Originally Posted By: newmama
Just wanted to congratulate you on keeping your emotions in check, and wanted to know if your techniques would be different if he was having an A? If not, then it doesn't matter.
That question is something I asked myself yesterday. All my adult life my stance has always been any type of A would be a deal breaker for me. I could never understand how/why someone would even consider an A when married. Well, until you walk in the LBS I guess you really don’t know how you would respond to this. There are so many different dynamics that come into play. Anyway, in light of the recent developments my goal has still not changed. I still want to try and save my M. The way I see it an A is just one more hurdle that I need to overcome.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
