I guess every sitch is different and has its own circumstances. She had LS papers drawn up and we agreed on the terms - she wanted an LS very badly. LS says we have to live seperate and apart - and sitch with my 23 yr old son not getting along with W or my girls, it became a solution to solve a handful of problems. Our house is up for sale anyway - so we'd be getting two places after the sale. I stayed in the house since October -and things were getting increasingly edgey. Yes - she ended up getting what she wanted - LS and me out - but - I think there is something to be said about letting that caged animal out and setting it free. If it leaves - it was never meant to be with you - if it comes back - you know you have true love and friendship. In the meantime, I'll adjust to new living arrangement - work on myself and my 180 - and see what happens. So - I don't know if I was right or wrong - and maybe there is no right or wrong. Fact is I am out of the house living with my 23 yr old son in apartment and newly seperated. It hurts like hell - but it is what it is.


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010