We've all been told we'd be better off without our spouses. Remember what MWD warns- people say that because they don't want to see us in pain.

Your H avoided the "ex wife" comment altogether in his email.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004