MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

I will look up your thread LFW! That is funny that you mention rearranging furniture because my family makes fun of me as they never know how it is going to be arranged when they get home! I do that all the time! I am happy to report that I did find a new comforter yesterday so will look for paint colors now!!!

Today I am struggling with a decision I made a few weeks back to change the locks on the house after I saw H bring OW here. He had asked me if I was locking him out and I told him no I was not but that I didn't feel "safe" here anymore. Anyway, was reading a book last night "When A Mate Wants Out" and it says specifically in there to not do that. It is by Jim and Sally Conway. He went through MLC himself.

I think I am also waiting for the other shoe to drop, not knowing if H is going to proceed with the D process or slow it down. The L I talked to advised that March 4 would be the day that his L would file...dread going to the mailbox now!!!