Just remember that his anger, his aggression , his pettiness...none of those are about you. He must feel really terrible about himself deep down. My it is sooo much easier for you to be his scape goat then for him to face the failures of his own making.

Once you really get that it is about them and not really so much about you, the hurt begins to recede. Sure there are things that we did wrong but nothing we did made them be unfaithful. That my dear is all theirs.

Huge hugs to you. kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory