He did go to the L, put only to have him start writing up the paperwork. He called and left me a message that said he didn't file YET, just in case we get back together. I didn't respond.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10