Go back and read some of the posts from earlier from Puppy. What your looking for here is COMMITMENT not COMPLIANCE. He is still giving you compliance "what can i do to prove it to you?" stuff. What is commitment? I think somebody said earlier this is his mess and if he wants to show you he is commited he knows (or can at least try to think) of ways to show you that. He wants to dump it all on you. See I've ended the affair the ball's back in your court. No way!
I really think telling him you are trying to work though this stuff and that your not comfortable making any decisions right now is a good response. If he's commited he will respect your feelings. I think in the interim you will learn alot about him.
Gritter
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
