Yesterday H and I text like normal. Talking about our days. Then last night a sad text saying good night and "please know that I love you lots...both of you :* xoxo". It sounds to me like a white flag saying he loves us, but will never be with us. So sad. He is going to live a miserable life knowing he abandoned his W and S to be "just friends" with OW. So sad.

I tried to type up an e-mail yesterday, but nothing was coming out right without it sounding like I was controlling the situation with S. I want to express my concerns without being pushy. I am going to work hard on it today because I really feel H needs to know about S and for once needs to put his feelings first.

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89