My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

That is definitely true about OW. My H would always be down and very upset when him and OW were in a fight, which made me mad because S and I only see him once a week so why does he have to pout over OW during that time.

I know you are at the beginning stages, but it really is good to let him make contact. You don't want him to come home just because OW is ignoring him, and then him to leave again when she misses him. You need to take control of your life, otherwise he will keep going back and forth for forever.