Im new, but i wanted to say urs is such an inspirational story and it really gives me hope.
I'm a WAW so i can kind of empathize with your partner in some respects. I 'woke' up after 10wks but the difference is my H has not taken me back properly yet. My sitch is long and complicated, faults on both sides but my EA did the most damage because my H does not forgive easily. And i don't deserve immediate forgiveness.
What i wanted to ask is referring to your last comment...do you think if you never give up hope and assume and act like everything will come good in the end that life will turn out that way? I sometimes don't want to act happy because my H will think I don't believe what i did was serious. Do you know what i mean?
Congrats on your engagement, you deserve it!!
me 41 H 40 D 10 S 13 S 15 separated in same house 05/09 my A 05-07/09