Sandi/others -
I have been very busy and I felt I needed to take a break from here for a few days...focus on figuring more out on my own and rely less on others...just so happens that I made this decision about the time that life got hectic. I will update more in the next few days.

For now, know I am ok. I am about to travel for work all over the pacific. Know that W is coming out of fog and showing more positive signs than any time since sitch started; not that we are anywhere close to piecing, but for whatever reasons, fog is going away, W is much more relaxed around me, there have been no anger bouts in at a least a week or more.

Also remember the crisis of the job in Hawaii...thought that had passed and wasn't a concern...nope, its back as being a potential move.

Next month could change a lot. Over the next 3 weeks, between my work travels and her trip to see her dad, we will only be together about 4 days. So could be some "interesting" times.
More updates later, thanks for checking in on me, got to go


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11