Absolutely, I have no intention of tipping him off (sorry, did I imply that I would?). I am not talking to him at the moment anyway, so there is not chance he will find out before I contact the H.

Puppy, I really like your sentence:

Everything I've done, I've done to fight for our marriage."

I think that this may be my mantra.

Me 37 years young!!
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D final 13.05.2010
Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!!
First post: D Day has arrived