FIB - "Keep drumming Ellie and, if you pardon me, I hope the sex was/IS great!!!!!!!LOL."
OMG, you have NO idea
I must say, the ex was great in that regard, and I was pretty upset at the thought of being a 53 year old woman trying to train some new guy to be half as good. After all, 26 years of practice, a guy gets pretty good at things. And I'd had plenty of other lovers in my twenties (it was the 70's, after all), so I had a basis for comparison.
BUT - the new guy has mad ninja skills like I have NEVER seen.