Basically told me she doesn't know what is really missing in our relationship to be able to put it into words, she just knows that "it" is not there. She knows "it" when she sees "it" and knows that "it" is "out there". I guess in other men.
This is the same quote that Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart used to define "pornography." Stewart wrote in his short concurrence that "hard-core pornography" was hard to define, but that "I know it when I see it."
Maybe that's what she was talking about when she said "it."
