WAW and me in 11th hour!!!!

[Ken62]

If you have not read Michele's article on the Symptoms of the WAW, you could find out a lot. You can find it here on DB's home page.

If your W had two EA's in a three-month span, she really has something going on that a professional needs to help her with....and I hope her IC is very good. I don't tell you to move on to discourage you, but this might run into a very long and serious journey. DBing may not be enough to turn her around. I hope she gets the help she truly needs.

Does she have other addictions?

Hi Sandi2,

I have read Michele's article on the DB website and I have read the page in DR. My W basically ended the first EA because I had "changed" and she felt it was only fair to give us another chance. She has since realized that the first EA would never have worked but she moved on to the next one because she is convinced that there is someone out there for her and it is NOT me and she belives that there is also someone out there for me too. Unfortunately she is NOT doing any IC and I wish she would. She does have a history of teenage sexual abuse and dealt with that in IC 8 years ago when she decided to WA. I don't believe that she has other addictions. I am moving on with my life as part of DBing and I know that it may never bring her back. She does seem pretty far gone and VERY determined to get this D and the annulment so I don't have a lot of hope but I'm not going to stop trying.

Thanks again,

Ken