So my wife wears a veil (like Mary). I brought my brother who I rarely see home after having coffee with him to get two books for him that I forgot on the ledge by the door. I forgot that she wouldn't be wearing her veil. I saw her, she saw him, and she went upstairs. I immediately apologized, twice. He saw my kids for a few minutes, then I brought him home. I came back and she was angry.
I apologized a 3rd time, reminding her it was a mistake. Biting at my words, she flooded. So I left and tried the conversation a couple hours later. I asked her if I have done that before. She mentioned two times where she had a big role in the problem. Then I asked her to tell me about the 3rd time. She got very angry and refused to tell me because I was "judging" her. She expects I should've called first to tell her - even though I just forgot~
