I got a text from W this AM that said, "I hope you can forgive me." I asked her if she could for give me. She said, "of course." I was puzzled by this so I sent a text back to her and said, "will you stop having this affair?" This was probably the wrong question to ask her, but IMO I thought I should match her blatantcy.
Her reply: "I am not getting back together with you. If I wasn't seeing someone it wouldn't be any different between you and I. I do not want to be with you anymore. You need to realize it is over betwen us. Move on."
WTF? I had said nothing to her about getting back together. This all seemed so random.
I dunno, I took it the exact same way. If the definition of "affair" is "to have a romantic relationship with someone other than your spouse," then to "stop having this affair" would mean, by implication, "get back together with your spouse" . . . no???
