Thanks, MF. You always know the right things to say. And you are right, it is complete speculation on my part.
I just can't trust anything he says right now. I have yet to catch him in a lie, but the 100% level of trust I had in him was reduced to zero when he decided to walk out the door.
Regardless of the reality of the sitch (OW or not), I am in this for the long haul. Whatever that may be.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning