I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[Quart9]

Thank you Mr. Bond. Yes, I see where her family could side with her. I don't believe BIL would though. He and I are pretty good friends and have always stuck up for one another over the years.

I just feel like at least one person on her side of the family needs to know what's going on. If the divorce goes through and she begins to openly date OM I want them (or atleast my BIL) to know where OM came from.

I got a text from W this AM that said, "I hope you can forgive me." I asked her if she could for give me. She said, "of course." I was puzzled by this so I sent a text back to her and said, "will you stop having this affair?" This was probably the wrong question to ask her, but IMO I thought I should match her blatantcy.

Her reply: "I am not getting back together with you. If I wasn't seeing someone it wouldn't be any different between you and I. I do not want to be with you anymore. You need to realize it is over betwen us. Move on."

WTF? I had said nothing to her about getting back together. This all seemed so random. I didn't want to get into an arguement with her but I was so taken aback by this I told her we were not just boyfriend and girlfriend, that we had taken vows, and that telling me to 'move on' seemed immature to say.

No response. She has so little respect for me. I guess she thinks she can ignore me and I'll just go away.